It really has been the season...
I've reached out to two people who were
friends, and then were not for a time. The whys and wherefores are
not really important. Bad communication, poor choices, and harsh
judgment all played a part on all sides.
Regardless, one-too-many renditions of
Lennon's “So This is Christmas” hit me in the heart like a
shotgun blast, and I determined to reach out and re-connect. They
have both welcomed this, and I feel magnificently better for it. Such
gifts cannot be wrapped with a bow, yet they are shiny and wonderful
nonetheless.
There has been drama on the home front,
with deeply hurt feelings and overwhelming anger rampant. Then, with
hard conversations and even harder self-reflection, peace was
achieved.
We are a passionate lot, we gamers. We
dream big, we feel big, and we often react in big ways. Pain runs
deepest when its caused by those we love dearest, and gaming groups
do tend to form bonds of love that create families-of-choice. When we
fight, the fires flare, words are used as weapons, and doors often
get slammed.
This is the season to open those doors,
offer your hand and your heart, and get back to rolling dice
together.
Life is too short; that's one of the
essential messages of which this time of year is meant to remind us.
Heed that message and find ways to heal hurts and regain lost
friendships.
Thus endeth the message.
Game on.
~SPF
Magnificently said, indeed. I'm so happy to have my family-by-choice by my side.
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